As a photographer I often meet parents who are camera-shy or would rather I just take photos of their children during their family photoshoot. But you deserve to be in those photos too!

Here’s why you should step in front of the camera for a change and create timeless memories with your little ones.

1. You’ll Cherish These Moments Forever

Children grow up fast. The baby that you’re holding in your arms today will be running around, exploring the world, and developing their own personality tomorrow. By getting in the photos with your children, you’ll capture memories that you’ll treasure forever. Years down the road, looking back at these moments will bring you so much joy and nostalgia.

2. Photos Tell the Story of Your Family’s Love

It’s easy to get caught up in daily life. But family photos are not just about showing how you look—they’re about telling your family’s unique story. By being in the picture, you become part of that story. You’ll look back on these images and see not just faces, but the deep bond between you and your children that can never be explained in words.

3. You’re the Heart of Your Family

As parents, you are the heart of your children’s world. When you step into a photo with them, you’re giving them a piece of their history. They’ll see how much you love them, and how much you’ve shaped their lives. Even if you feel like you’re not confident infront of the camera, your children will cherish these photos far more than the perfectly staged ones you might think you need.

4. Professional Family Photos Make a Big Impact

When you hire a photographer to capture these moments, it’s more than just a snapshot. A professional knows how to create images that highlight emotions, connection, and the little details that matter most. From candid laughs to spontaneous hugs, these photos capture your family’s unique dynamic in a way that standard phone photos don't.

5. Create Generational Memories

Family photos aren’t just for the here and now, they are passed down through generations. Imagine your grandchildren looking at pictures of you with their parents when they were little, laughing and hugging together. These images bridge generations, making it more than just a photo but a gift that lasts a lifetime. A family photo session allows you to freeze time and document a moment in your family’s life that will never come again.

6. It’s Easier Than You Think

One common excuse parents give for not being in the photos is, “I don’t know how to pose” or “I don’t like how I look.” The beauty of candid, natural photography (which is what I love to capture) is that there’s no need for stiff poses. It’s about capturing real moments that reflect who you are as a family. The best photos happen when you are simply enjoying your time together, laughing, playing, and connecting with your children.

7. Your Children Will Thank You Later

When your children are older, they will thank you for getting in the photos with them. As they grow, they may not always remember the little moments, but these photos will serve as a lasting reminder of your love, support, and presence in their lives. These images will be part of the stories they share with their own children one day.

8. Capture the Unscripted, Real Moments

When you’re behind the camera, you’re focused on capturing your children’s smiles and actions. But sometimes, the best moments are when you’re involved. The spontaneous laughter, the loving looks, and the closeness between you and your children are moments that should be cherished in photographs. These unscripted moments are what truly make family photos magical.

Conclusion

As a family photographer I believe that being in the photos with your children is a priceless gift. So, next time you’re planning a family photo shoot, don’t hesitate—get in front of the camera and create memories that will last for generations.

If you're in the Ashford, Kent area and would like to capture your family in a beautiful set of images, please contact me using the form on my website, via social media, or my email address takenbyjessphotography@gmail.com.