7 Top Tips for a Smooth Family Photo Shoot – What to Do If Your Children Won’t Cooperate
- takenbyjessphotogr
- Mar 23
- 2 min read
A family photoshoot should be a fun and memorable experience, but as any parent knows, getting young children to cooperate can sometimes feel like an impossible task. If you're searching for stress-free family photography in Ashford or the general Kent area, or you're wondering how to prepare kids for a family photoshoot, you’re in the right place.

As a photographer specialising in natural, relaxed outdoor family photography, I understand the challenges of photographing young children. Here are my top tips to ensure a smooth session and capture beautiful, genuine moments—even if your little ones aren’t feeling their most cooperative!
1. Choose the Right Time of Day
Timing is everything when it comes to family photography with kids. Young children are usually happiest in the morning or late afternoon, avoiding the midday heat and tiredness. For the best results, consider booking your session during the golden hour for outdoor family photography, when the lighting is soft and flattering.
2. Pick a Comfortable and Familiar Location
A familiar or child-friendly photography location can make a big difference in how your child behaves during the session. If they feel at ease, they are more likely to engage naturally. My private garden photography sessions in Ashford provide a safe, secure, and colourful setting where children can explore and feel relaxed or I am happy to meet you at a location that's comfortable and familiar to your family.

3. Keep Outfits Simple and Comfortable
Avoid itchy fabrics, restrictive clothing, or anything that makes your child uncomfortable. Opt for soft, breathable fabrics in neutral or earthy tones that complement an outdoor setting. Dressing in layers can also help if the weather changes unexpectedly. For more information on what to wear during a photography session, please see my previous blogs for tips and tricks.
4. Make It Fun – Not Forced
Children respond best when they’re having fun. Rather than forcing them into stiff poses, we’ll encourage playful activities—running, jumping, cuddling, or interacting with parents and siblings. This helps capture natural, candid family moments that reflect your genuine connection.

5. Take the Pressure Off
If you’re feeling stressed, your child will pick up on it. Try to stay relaxed and go with the flow. Some of the most beautiful family photos come from unexpected moments, so embrace whatever happens on the day.
6. Bring Snacks and Small Comforts
Hunger or discomfort can quickly lead to frustration. Pack a few easy, mess-free snacks, a favourite toy, or a small comfort item to keep your child happy and engaged during the session.
7. Be Flexible and Embrace Imperfection
Sometimes the best shots come from unplanned, in-the-moment interactions. A laid-back, natural family photography session allows children to be themselves, resulting in authentic, heartfelt images you’ll treasure forever.

Book a Relaxed Family Photoshoot in Ashford, Kent
If you’re looking for a stress-free, natural family photography session, I’d love to help capture your family’s unique story. Get in touch today to book your session today.
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